dirty-bitmap: switch assert-fails to errors in bdrv_merge_dirty_bitmap

dirty-bitmap: switch assert-fails to errors in bdrv_merge_dirty_bitmap

Move checks from qmp_x_block_dirty_bitmap_merge() to
bdrv_merge_dirty_bitmap(), to share them with dirty bitmap merge
transaction action in future commit.

Note: for now, only qmp_x_block_dirty_bitmap_merge() calls
bdrv_merge_dirty_bitmap().

Signed-off-by: Vladimir Sementsov-Ogievskiy <vsementsov@virtuozzo.com>
Reviewed-by: John Snow <jsnow@redhat.com>