iser-target: Fix flush + disconnect completion handling

iser-target: Fix flush + disconnect completion handling

ISER_CONN_UP state is not sufficient to know if
we should wait for completion of flush errors and
disconnected_handler event.

Instead, split it to 2 states:
- ISER_CONN_UP: Got to CM connected phase, This state
indicates that we need to wait for a CM disconnect
event before going to teardown.

- ISER_CONN_FULL_FEATURE: Got to full feature phase
after we posted login response, This state indicates
that we posted recv buffers and we need to wait for
flush completions before going to teardown.

Also avoid deffering disconnected handler to a work,
and handle it within disconnected handler.
More work here is needed to handle DEVICE_REMOVAL event
correctly (cleanup all resources).

Squashed:

iser-target: Don't deffer disconnected handler to a work

Signed-off-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagig@mellanox.com>
Cc: <stable@vger.kernel.org> # v3.10+
Signed-off-by: Nicholas Bellinger <nab@linux-iscsi.org>