[X86][SSE] Enable commutation from MOVSD/MOVSS to BLENDPD/BLENDPS on SSE41+ targets

[X86][SSE] Enable commutation from MOVSD/MOVSS to BLENDPD/BLENDPS on SSE41+ targets

Instead of selecting between MOVSD/MOVSS and BLENDPD/BLENDPS at shuffle lowering by subtarget this will help us select the instruction based on actual commutation requirements.

We could possibly add BLENDPD/BLENDPS -> MOVSD/MOVSS commutation and MOVSD/MOVSS memory folding using a similar approach if it proves useful

I avoided adding AVX512 handling as I'm not sure when we should be making use of VBLENDPD/VBLENDPS on EVEX targets

git-svn-id: https://llvm.org/svn/llvm-project/llvm/trunk@283037 91177308-0d34-0410-b5e6-96231b3b80d8