nbd: s/handle/cookie/ to match NBD spec

nbd: s/handle/cookie/ to match NBD spec

Externally, libnbd exposed the 64-bit opaque marker for each client
NBD packet as the "cookie", because it was less confusing when
contrasted with 'struct nbd_handle *' holding all libnbd state.  It
also avoids confusion between the noun 'handle' as a way to identify a
packet and the verb 'handle' for reacting to things like signals.
Upstream NBD changed their spec to favor the name "cookie" based on
libnbd's recommendations[1], so we can do likewise.

[1] https://github.com/NetworkBlockDevice/nbd/commit/ca4392eb2b

Signed-off-by: Eric Blake <eblake@redhat.com>
Message-ID: <20230608135653.2918540-6-eblake@redhat.com>
[eblake: typo fix]
Reviewed-by: Vladimir Sementsov-Ogievskiy <vsementsov@yandex-team.ru>