throttle-groups: Don't allow timers without throttled requests

throttle-groups: Don't allow timers without throttled requests

Commit 6fccbb475bc6effc313ee9481726a1748b6dae57 fixed a bug caused by
QEMU attempting to remove a throttle group member with no pending
requests but an active timer set. This was the result of a previous
bdrv_drained_begin() call processing the throttled requests but
leaving the timer untouched.

Although the commit does solve the problem, the situation shouldn't
happen in the first place. If we try to drain a throttle group member
which has a timer set, we should cancel the timer instead of ignoring
it.

Signed-off-by: Alberto Garcia <berto@igalia.com>
Signed-off-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>