block: introduce assert_bdrv_graph_writable

block: introduce assert_bdrv_graph_writable

We want to be sure that the functions that write the child and
parent list of a bs are under BQL and drain.

BQL prevents from concurrent writings from the GS API, while
drains protect from I/O.

TODO: drains are missing in some functions using this assert.
Therefore a proper assertion will fail. Because adding drains
requires additional discussions, they will be added in future
series.

Signed-off-by: Emanuele Giuseppe Esposito <eesposit@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20220303151616.325444-15-eesposit@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>