9p: darwin: Compatibility for f/l*xattr

9p: darwin: Compatibility for f/l*xattr

On darwin `fgetxattr` takes two extra optional arguments,
and the l* variants are not defined (in favor of an extra
flag to the regular variants.

Signed-off-by: Keno Fischer <keno@juliacomputing.com>
[Michael Roitzsch: - Rebase for NixOS]
Signed-off-by: Michael Roitzsch <reactorcontrol@icloud.com>
Signed-off-by: Will Cohen <wwcohen@gmail.com>
Message-Id: <20220227223522.91937-9-wwcohen@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Christian Schoenebeck <qemu_oss@crudebyte.com>
Acked-by: Christian Schoenebeck <qemu_oss@crudebyte.com>