Fix llvm-extract's "writing bitcode to a terminal" warning, which wasn't

Fix llvm-extract's "writing bitcode to a terminal" warning, which wasn't
working. To support this, add an is_displayed() function to raw_ostream,
and generalize Process::StandardOutIsDisplayed and friends in order to
support it.

Also, call RemoveFileOnSignal before creating a file instead of after, so
that the file isn't left behind if the program is interrupted between when
the file is created and RemoveFileOnSignal is called.

While here, add a -S to llvm-extract and port it to IRReader so that it
supports assembly input.

git-svn-id: https://llvm.org/svn/llvm-project/llvm/trunk@81568 91177308-0d34-0410-b5e6-96231b3b80d8