Fix header file usage -- there were many unnecessary header files included in

Fix header file usage -- there were many unnecessary header files included in
busybox.h which slowed compiles.  I left only what was needed and then fixed up
all the apps to include their own header files.  I also fixed naming for pwd.h
and grp.h functions.  Tested to compile and run with libc5, glibc, and uClibc.
 -Erik