virtio-mem: Mark memslot alias memory regions unmergeable

virtio-mem: Mark memslot alias memory regions unmergeable

Let's mark the memslot alias memory regions as unmergable, such that
flatview and vhost won't merge adjacent memory region aliases and we can
atomically map/unmap individual aliases without affecting adjacent
alias memory regions.

This handles vhost and vfio in multiple-memslot mode correctly (which do
not support atomic memslot updates) and avoids the temporary removal of
large memslots, which can be an expensive operation. For example, vfio
might have to unpin + repin a lot of memory, which is undesired.

Message-ID: <20230926185738.277351-19-david@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Philippe Mathieu-Daudé <philmd@linaro.org>
Reviewed-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: David Hildenbrand <david@redhat.com>