drm/i915: honor forced connector modes v2

drm/i915: honor forced connector modes v2

In the move over to use BIOS connector configs, we lost the ability to
force a specific set of connectors on or off.  Try to remedy that by
dropping back to the old behavior if we detect a hard coded connector
config.

v2: don't deref connector state for disabled connectors (Jesse)

Reported-by: Ville Syrjälä <ville.syrjala@linux.intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jesse Barnes <jbarnes@virtuousgeek.org>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Vetter <daniel.vetter@ffwll.ch>