UPSTREAM: xfrm: Only add l3mdev oif to dst lookups

UPSTREAM: xfrm: Only add l3mdev oif to dst lookups

Subash reported that commit 42a7b32b73d6 ("xfrm: Add oif to dst lookups")
broke a wifi use case that uses fib rules and xfrms. The intent of
42a7b32b73d6 was driven by VRFs with IPsec. As a compromise relax the
use of oif in xfrm lookups to L3 master devices only (ie., oif is either
an L3 master device or is enslaved to a master device).

[cherry-pick of upstream 11d7a0bb95eaaba1741bb24a7c3c169c82f09c7b]

Bug: 63589535
Change-Id: Ibadb15341f6c6c7077eccfaa2c66b3bb86b251bf
Fixes: 42a7b32b73d6 ("xfrm: Add oif to dst lookups")
Reported-by: Subash Abhinov Kasiviswanathan <subashab@codeaurora.org>
Signed-off-by: David Ahern <dsa@cumulusnetworks.com>
Signed-off-by: Steffen Klassert <steffen.klassert@secunet.com>