xsk: don't allow umem replace at stack level

xsk: don't allow umem replace at stack level

Currently drivers have to check if they already have a umem
installed for a given queue and return an error if so.  Make
better use of XDP_QUERY_XSK_UMEM and move this functionality
to the core.

We need to keep rtnl across the calls now.

Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <jakub.kicinski@netronome.com>
Reviewed-by: Quentin Monnet <quentin.monnet@netronome.com>
Acked-by: Björn Töpel <bjorn.topel@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>